Our greatest opponent in our lives is ourselves. Our own demise is based on our upbringing, our environment, what we learned, who we are attracted to. It is the social atmosphere and the absorption of them combined together. Every single one of us has a unique story of that mixture creating togetherness, conflict, differences or creative elements. All of this is what makes us, shakes us, takes us and continually growing and learning. Without it, we’d be boring earthlings. You and I are a part of this mixture where we continually challenge ourselves trying to live up to whatever our “plan” may be.
Day by day we ask if we’re on the right path of growing. Is survival itself our “plan?” Who knows? That’s why everyday should be a new learning experience, a new battlefield, a new challenge, a new excitement or any type of new development.
What matters if you yourself knows that doing today stuff will chain react to my future growth and well- being. You ask yourself how cleaning house all day can be a fulfilled day? Well, its all in the interpretation of what you hoped to get out of it. For example, you hope more guests come over so you can brighten yourself up, you like the feeling of freshness all around, you hope to keep the pattern routine and not let things “slide” over and over, you pride yourself as being well cleaned, your hobby requires it or no one else will do it so you have no say in the matter. Whatever it may be, they all lead to future chain reactions.
One key factor to all of this is happiness. When you do aim towards your daily routine schedules, do you subconsciously say to yourself- lets just get this day over with and that’s it? Most likely not. Hopefully, when you desire certain spontaneity, you also reach for happiness. Everything you do won’t make any difference in the world if you’re unhappy. I myself have tried to ask what makes one happy. I believe a positive attitude towards everything, positive outlook towards others, an exercise regime, a central interest, hanging around other positive people, a religious belief, a career path you enjoy( be it may be home mom, lawyer, etc.), a regular steady income and a strong family unit.
Oh I forgot confidence. Believe it or not this is very key to fulfilled happiness. Once you’re sincerely confident, others notice practically wanting to magnetize themselves towards you. Others will confide in you more, want to be around you more, seek your opinion more, take you out more and simply just want to be around you more. There’s no need to be rude, obnoxious, loud, cruel or crude. These are just displays of weakness and insecurity. Be yourself and always look in the mirror telling yourself you’re the most beautiful person and that anyone would be delighted to know the real confident you. Always re-creating yourself could be edgy and fresh.
Go ahead-- embellish your tales of wisdom and past events, make yourself as “THE HOLLYWOOD” it and go with it. Everything’s in your own ball park, just go and flow with it. Always remember to be happy while doing so. Remember to that your family is always there for you. Don’t ever hold a grudge against any of your family. Always or give and never let any argument go on. Plus the feeling is jus awkward and uncomfortable. Act as if nothing really happened and they probably will to. Its nice to have all your family there for different reasons. Use them as resources and tools. They probably do use to for different reasons. Like Jerry would like to go with you somewhere or Jamie or Beck. Just remember we’re all important to each other. Okay, I love you very much. I hope always and forever you are genuinely happy, healthy and loved. Be true to yourself above all others. Love always and forever, Jenna Lyn
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